The Ritual of Dominance & Submission by David English

Author:David English [English, David]
Language: eng
Format: epub, mobi
Published: 2012-11-12T06:00:00+00:00

Seven: In a polyamorous dynamic or a ‘house’ slave situation, it can be very valuable to ensure that all members of the household are present in observation of the implementation of punishment. This creates a

humbling factor for the one punished in front of their peers, and serves as a reminder to all of what happens when they misbehave.

Eight: Make sure you communicate well with the submissive as to what different offenses mean in terms of the power exchange and high protocol dynamics. There is no limit to the different rules that could be violated, but the ultimate offense is disrespecting the Dominant. There is likewise no limit to the ways any offense can come back to disrespecting the Dominant. Don’t use this as a trap for the submissive, but rather a reminder of terrible chain of events that can unfold for them from something seemingly unimportant.

Nine: Be creative in your choices for how to implement punishment, but take the time to get to know the mind of the submissive so a simple spanking does not land you right on top of an emotional landmine from some incident in the submissive’s past. There are often specific acts of punishment that should be avoided at all cost. The goal is to correct behavior, improve the quality of the submissive’s service, and to grow the submissive mentally and emotionally through the process, not cause them to withdraw into an emotional nightmare or lose their trust in you the Dominant.

Below are several different punishment techniques that you might find useful. Remember however that what you use or don’t use is completely up to you based on what works best in your specific relationship dynamic. These are merely guidelines.

Technique: Corner Time

Purpose/Use: This is a commonly used disciplinary measure used to give the submissive time to think and reflect on their actions and/or behavior that led to the need for discipline. This would be used when an offense was bad, but not so bad as to require physical punishment techniques.

Psychology: Often the mere act of placing the submissive alone with their thoughts and guilt is enough corrective action to alleviate the offense that got them there from happening again anytime soon. Whether it is from childhood memories of being put in a corner, humiliation, or simply denial of the Dominant’s attention while in the corner, corner time has been proven useful with many submissives.

Conversely, some submissives crave the humiliation and corner time can merely become a feat of boring endurance. With this as well as all of the other disciplinary techniques listed here, you should fit the punishment to the crime and the punishment technique to the psyche of the offender.

Description: Have the submissive stand, sit or kneel in a corner with their face to the corner. Ensure there are no distractions in the corner to distract the submissive from thoughts of the offense that landed them there. Determine the duration of the corner time before it begins, but it is the Dominant’s prerogative to share that knowledge ahead of time or not with the submissive.

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